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Take the Pledge

I PROMISE TO:

  • Abide by the motto “Never do for my child, what he can do for himself.”
  • Disregard the hairy eyeballs and notes from school when my kids are seen in public with mismatched clothes, nutritionally deficient lunches, sandles instead of snow boots.
  • Support my child as they take the first steps in becoming independent rock stars in their own lives.
  • Take the time necessary to train my kids and then notice and acknowledge their progress and improvement.
  • Remember that if you have an 18 year old who is excited and prepared to enter life without you, you’ve done our job.
  • Keep my “I told you so’s” and “Are you sure you have everything you need?” to myself.
  • Celebrate!
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You May Now Quit Your Job as the Maid (Seriously.)



First and foremost, you are a parent. A respectable human who deserves cooperation from the people in your house. You are not obligated to run yourself into the ground, doing things for your kids that they can certainly do themselves, saving everyone’s little fanny when they forget things, fixing everyone’s problems or catering to the immediate needs of those who share your last name.


No, you are empowered to train your children to wash their own clothes. You are encouraged to let them make their own lunches. And yes, you can expect that they can one day empty the dishwasher unprompted.


It may sound shocking or even a tad bit harsh, (after all, they’re so little…wrong!) Trust us , and thousands of parents: when you quit being the maid, your quality of life will increase and as a result, the family will change. Guaranteed.


It’s a fact, that children who are invited to participate, trained by a patient and supportive parent, allowed to make mistakes, and appreciated for their willingness to take on more responsibility, will not only begin helping around the house on a regular basis, but they will also have a much easier time navigating life beyond our threshold.


Add to that, the fact that at 18 our little munchkins will be stepping into life on their own and unless you plan on going with them or hiring them a housekeeper, they will be required to do everything – that you’re currently doing for them.


It’s time to enjoy that coffee in the morning as your children practice independence and self-sufficiency.


Learn more about the Parenting On Track™ Home Program and how to Quit Your Job as the Maid!