Milk Without Chocolate - By VickiHoefle on October 6, 2009 - 2 Comments
When do you start training?
- Are you a parent who thinks kids can’t do much?
- Do you think kids have to be 13 before you can begin teaching them how to take care of themselves?
- Do you think kids might be resistant to doing things for themselves, after they have had a bit of training?
- Did it ever occur to you that four-year-olds can make a decent peanut butter and jelly sandwich?
We’ve got news for you – they can – they do and this one DID. Check it out.
If you are hesitant to start training, I encourage you to rethink your ideas on training kids for independence and self sufficiency. Or then again, you could be packing lunch for an ungrateful 13 year old. Its up to you- you choose.
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Sally
Vicki
Oh Sally,
My eyes are filling with tears just thinking about the smile on her face. What a treat for ALL of you. My gosh, this alone can feed a parents soul for weeks.
I’m so glad you are finding the information helpful and are experiencing the delights of turning the reigns over to these delightful children of ours.
Also, thanks for taking the time to write and to share.
Be Well,
Vicki
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