Comments on: How to Stop Doing It All http://www.parentingontrack.com/invest-in-the-best/how-to-stop-doing-it-all/ Your Family. Your Solutions! Sat, 31 Jul 2010 15:55:30 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.6.2 By: Jeanne http://www.parentingontrack.com/invest-in-the-best/how-to-stop-doing-it-all/#comment-534 Jeanne Fri, 09 Apr 2010 00:29:23 +0000 http://www.parentingontrack.com/?p=1270#comment-534 I just want to tell you that tonight at dinner we were talking with the kids about school. Our 12 year old daughter was sharing that in health class they were talking about a book, "Get Out of My Life, but First Could You Drive Me & Cheryl to the Mall?" She was sharing with us that ALL of the girls in her group were sharing that they don't want to be with their parents, never want to talk with them, never want to be seen with them, and never want to help out around the house. She told us she was the only one in the group that had daily contributions (and liked doing them) who liked to talk to her parents, and loved being around us....hmmmm it might have been difficult training her at 5 years old and following through, and inviting her to participate, but the benefit is sooo worth it. Both of our teenage children continue to extend the invitation to us to be a part of their lives AND continue to help enthusiastically around the house and willingly learn more. Our oldest exclaimed last weekend that he was leaving in 4 years and had some stuff he wanted to learn how to do before he had to do it on his own!!! Thanks Vicki for sharing this information and helping us to invest in our children when they are little and we think- what difference does it make- so we can have the privilege of living with these amazing young teens!!!! For anyone who is reading this and you have a 3 year old. It makes a big difference. Start now! Its sooo worth it. I just want to tell you that tonight at dinner we were talking with the kids about school. Our 12 year old daughter was sharing that in health class they were talking about a book, “Get Out of My Life, but First Could You Drive Me & Cheryl to the Mall?” She was sharing with us that ALL of the girls in her group were sharing that they don’t want to be with their parents, never want to talk with them, never want to be seen with them, and never want to help out around the house. She told us she was the only one in the group that had daily contributions (and liked doing them) who liked to talk to her parents, and loved being around us….hmmmm it might have been difficult training her at 5 years old and following through, and inviting her to participate, but the benefit is sooo worth it. Both of our teenage children continue to extend the invitation to us to be a part of their lives AND continue to help enthusiastically around the house and willingly learn more. Our oldest exclaimed last weekend that he was leaving in 4 years and had some stuff he wanted to learn how to do before he had to do it on his own!!! Thanks Vicki for sharing this information and helping us to invest in our children when they are little and we think- what difference does it make- so we can have the privilege of living with these amazing young teens!!!! For anyone who is reading this and you have a 3 year old. It makes a big difference. Start now! Its sooo worth it.

]]> By: Vicki http://www.parentingontrack.com/invest-in-the-best/how-to-stop-doing-it-all/#comment-151 Vicki Thu, 19 Mar 2009 19:02:21 +0000 http://www.parentingontrack.com/?p=1270#comment-151 Hey Chris, Yeah!!! Now you got it. Why is that we parents set such high expectations for your kids? Imagine how much more fun childhood would be for our kids if we got this straight when they were babies and how much more enjoyable it would be for us parents. Heaven. Have fun sista. Hey Chris,

Yeah!!! Now you got it.

Why is that we parents set such high expectations for your kids? Imagine how much more fun childhood would be for our kids if we got this straight when they were babies and how much more enjoyable it would be for us parents.

Heaven. Have fun sista.

]]> By: Christina http://www.parentingontrack.com/invest-in-the-best/how-to-stop-doing-it-all/#comment-150 Christina Thu, 19 Mar 2009 12:41:25 +0000 http://www.parentingontrack.com/?p=1270#comment-150 Ohhhhh! I get it now! Like, this training stuff is supposed to take time! I have a renewed outlook on contributions.... I think I definitely had unreasonable expectations for my kids and now I feel like we can all succeed! Thanks Vic! Rock Star!!! Ohhhhh! I get it now! Like, this training stuff is supposed to take time! I have a renewed outlook on contributions…. I think I definitely had unreasonable expectations for my kids and now I feel like we can all succeed! Thanks Vic! Rock Star!!!

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