Discovery - By VickiHoefle on April 27, 2009 - 1 Comment
Relax? Yes, Please!
I wanted to round out this month of Wellness tips with an article on relaxation. I know that I definitely feel like I can parent from my best when I feel relaxed, so I figured you probably would too.
While looking for ideas on this subject, I Googled “Relaxation and Family”, and you know what I found? 17 million ideas on just about everything under the sun. It seems that relaxation means a lot of different things to different people. It can mean anything from going on a fun vacation or a fishing adventure to therapy and meditation. And it is almost guaranteed that at least one, but probably not all, of those things sound relaxing to you.
This got me thinking that the subject of relaxation is a lot like the Parenting On Track™ Program. It can also mean a lot of different things to a lot of different people.
The great thing about relaxation is that only you know how best to relax, and the benefits of relaxation are enormous for everyone. The same can be said about the Parenting On Track™ Program. Once you learn the program and the strategies, you can personalize it for your family, because only you know what’s best for your family and, again, the benefits of using the Program are enormous for everyone.
If this is clear as mud, let me give some examples. Suzy has small children and finds that a trip to the spa is very relaxing. Suzy also has the Parenting On Track™ Home Program and wonders how she ever lived without understanding Encouragement.
Now let’s look at Bob. He wouldn’t be caught dead on a massage table, but the thought of a quiet babbling brook and tackle box full of flies instantly lowers his blood pressure. Bob also has the Parenting On Track™ Home Program, but finds that the Roadmap to Success and Privileges and Responsibilities strategies have helped his older children to navigate smoothly through their daily lives.
The bottom line is—I really don’t have any tips on how you can find relaxation in your life. Only you know what is best for you. But I do know that the Parenting On Track™ Program is right for you and your family, because you have the ability to make it your own. The program has strategies that will work with you and your unique family because it is not a quick fix or a “how to” manual, but rather a way of being together as a family of individuals.
So, get out there and find some ways to relax during this month of wellness and taking care of ourselves. But also check out the Parenting On Track™ Home Program and start taking care of your family as well.
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Inspiration is a transient thing. Most of us look for it, but you can’t guarantee where you are going to find it. That is one reason why I love hearing from you (Yes You!) about all the wonderful, and sometimes messy, things that are going on in your houses with your families. Your stories are unique, sometimes funny, and always inspiring.
I received a response to this article that suggested we encourage our Parenting On Track community to publish their own ideas on how they relax as an inspiration for others. BRILLIANT! I can’t think of a better way for all of us to connect than to share ideas of how you keep yourself healthy and sane. Who knows, maybe you’ll find a new yoga partner or fishing buddy out of it!
So, if I was going to post a comment to this article, it would go something like this:
How do I relax? In the office by playing music from itunes - all day long. Heaven
In the morning by meditating with Anthony DeMello
During those tense moments during the day - a walk in nature - brisk and quick and I remember what is really important - Life.
Those are my 3 - sure to bring the heart rate down and a smile on my face strategies.
I’d love to hear from each and every one of you about what your ideas of relaxation are. You can comment here at our blog, or you can become a fan of ours on Facebook and post an idea on our wall. Either way, keep the ideas rolling and pass on some inspiration!
Be Well,
Vicki